Is My Husband Addicted to Sex?
Does your husband have unaccountable time?
Does your husband have unaccountable money?
Does your husband have unaccountable moods?
Does your husband's moods depend on whether he gets sex or not?
Does your husband have a lack of sexual activity with you?
Does your husband have a history of emotional, physical or sexual abuse or neglect?
Does your husband have a supply of pornography?
Are there many arguments over sex?
Is your husband unable to be emotionally intimate?
Does sex appear to not satisfy him (wants more right away or there never seems to be enough)?
Is there a lot of anger or erratic behavior when he is said "no" to sexually?
Do you feel alone during your sexual encounters?
Do you feel used, dirty or abandoned after sexual encounters?
Is there a sense that he's got his "fix" and now he's better?
Material by Dr. Doug Weiss, Executive Director at Heart to Heart Couseling Center
If you believe by answering these questions that your husband is a sex addict, you may want to make a telephone counseling appointment with Heart to Heart Couseling Center. Naperville Partner's Group is also available for women in need of a confidential and safe support group.
Now That I know What Should I Do?
Doug Weiss has created recovery materials for wives of a husband addicted to sex. Further help can be found at Naperville Partner's Group.